Saturday, October 11, 2008

Can't We Still Be Friends?....

No. We can't.

Why the hell do men in my life want to still be friends when they have decided we weren't good enough to be lovers? I don't understand it, and I never will.

So you're saying that I was good enough to be emotionally connected with you?... that you could depend on me?...that you saw traits of honesty, devotion, compassion? I had a good sense of humor? ...that we could both have an amazing time together (except in the sack of course)?...that you could talk with me when something was on your mind?...that your friends enjoyed my company too?...that through thick and thin, you knew I would always be there to stand beside you?

Well, those are certainly qualities I would like in a friend....AND a lover! I know I posses all of those qualities. My friends have told me so. I can see why you would want to hold on to me. But guess what? I don't have a history of sleeping with my friends. I never have, and I never will.

And there's just one important thing to point out to all of you out there when considering a partner... With time, physical attributes will inevitably fade. So, you may want to reconsider your long-term priorities in a relationship... -M

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